7/22/09

True Woman | Conversation 101, Part 1

Shared via AddThisA Lesson learned decades ago, at my own expense> You cannot have any conversation with another person if you cannot even remember their name upon encountering them.

I met a lovely, wonderful lady and the next time our paths crossed in a shop, I could not remember her name to introduce her to my husband. Being in my immature twenties it was devastating.

From that day on I apply these rules: Never hesitate to ask for a name to be repeated, even if you did hear it, ask if you have it correct. Unless the name is as common as John Doe, ask about the correct spelling and if the pronounciation is difficult be very specific in asking for clarification.
If I have a relative, a neighbor or good friend with the same name, I often would say<"That's easy to remember b/c I have a dear friend with that name"

The more often the name is discussed or repeated the more likely you will recall it. And by all means when you part company at that first introduction, use the name in your parting remarks!

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A Note From Me

I am so glad you stopped by-whether accidental or intentional. Some days my posts will be entirely inspirational and other times quite random but the time we share can be worthwhile. My initial intent was to use this space for my Mobley Family notes { james n mobley line } I know one can only write when inspired to do so. With that in mind I caution you to expect various twists and turns in the conversation as we wander Down the Lane and Around the Curve. If you have a clue what a Lane is then you already know that a walk down the lane can be a solitary walk, ambling without the company of another or it can simply be a leisure experience with someone who's company you enjoy, working out the world's problems or just soaking up nature and God's spectacular creation surrounding you. There is enjoyment either way. I say all that to say this: "Our walk down the lane will be much more interesting if you come along with me from time to time. I am not the only one with something to share so please join in as you are motivated or inspired.
Please know that I have not abandoned my first blog Down the Lane. I still drop in to read comments and check my tracker to see who's reading or even if there might be a new Follower. I have noticed when I check the traffic on Like Gramma's House and come over to DTL I am seeing apparently the same visitors are checking in on both sights..based on the city and state and time frame of the visitors..That's Great! Thank you faithful few who are inquisitive enough to click on the links and come over. Let me explain ...in case you have missed it earlier: This is my original blog. At a point in the process of this project I began to drift in a new direction creatively and hence Like Gramma's House was birthed. By way of continued explanation for what looks like an orphaned blog here..I simply have not come up with a way, an idea for either following through with Down the Lane or closing it out. One cannot write without inspiration. I just don't have a clue where to go with this one. The only glimmer of a creative twist I have is to invite my cousins to contribute to the family stories, pictures with their own quirky takes... looking back Down the Lane.There has been no encouragement leading me to think they would pitch in. They all have wonderful memories to share.. and I am confident it would be worth while. Apparently just don't think what they have to share would be blog worthy.


My Gramma's House~


Time changes so many things. Loved ones are no longer here. Landmarks dissappear from the landscape. Entire communities are seemingly erased. Homes have burned leaving scarcely a footprint in the earth where they once stood. Even so, we still refer back to things 'the way they once were' as being ~Like Gramma's House~ http://mygrammashouse.blogspot.com/

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There comes a time in LIFE when our COUSINS AGAIN become very important. I think that time has arrived. jwh